The first time I set foot in China, I made a silly mistake: I accidentally pointed my finger at a vendor's face. Their expression changed instantly. That's when I realized that Chinese culture isn't just something you read in books. Let me share some practical insights to help you feel less lost.
Quick Facts
- Best time to visit: Spring (March–May) and autumn (September–November), with pleasant weather and fewer tourists. Avoid Chinese New Year (usually late January or early February) as everything is crowded and expensive.
- Suggested duration: At least 7 days for Beijing–Shanghai, or 10 days if you want to add Xi'an and Guilin.
- Average daily budget: About 500–800 CNY (roughly 1.7–2.7 million VND) for food, transport, sightseeing, and a mid-range hotel.
- Getting around: The subway is king! In Beijing and Shanghai, the metro is very cheap (3–8 CNY per ride) and covers the whole city. Download Alipay or WeChat to scan QR codes for payment and buy tickets.
- Internet connection: Don't forget to buy a China eSIM from SimNha before your trip. I once had no signal when I needed to check Google Maps – disaster! With an eSIM, you can easily access blocked apps like Google, Facebook, and Instagram.
Communication and Greetings
How to Greet Properly
Chinese people usually nod slightly or bow when greeting, especially to elders. Handshakes should be gentle, not firm like in the West. When meeting business partners, use both hands to exchange business cards – it's a sign of respect.
💡 Tip: Always address older people as "big brother/sister" (大哥/大姐) rather than by their name. Younger people can be called "friend" (朋友).
Taboos in Conversation
- Don't point your finger at someone – it's rude. Instead, use an open hand to gesture.
- Avoid asking about salary, age, or marital status – these are private matters. Chinese people also don't like being asked "How much money do you have?"
- Don't talk about politics, Tibet, or Taiwan – sensitive topics that can easily cause arguments. It's best to focus on food and travel.
Dining Etiquette and Food
How to Eat Politely
When dining with Chinese people, wait for the eldest to pick up food first. Never stick chopsticks upright into a bowl of rice – that's only for funerals. When pouring tea, pour for others first, then yourself.
⚠️ Note: Don't refuse food immediately. If you're full, leave a little food on your plate to show you've had enough. Cleaning your plate might be interpreted as still being hungry!
Must-Try Dishes
- Peking Duck: Crispy skin, tender meat, wrapped in pancake with cucumber. About 200–300 CNY for a whole duck.
- Dimsum in Guangzhou: Baozi, har gow, siu mai – 20–40 CNY per portion.
- Lanzhou Lamian: Hand-pulled noodles in rich beef broth, only 15–25 CNY per bowl.
Daily Life Customs
Tipping and Bargaining
- No tipping in China, unless you want to be polite in upscale restaurants. At markets or in taxis, no one expects a tip.
- Bargaining is normal at street markets and small shops. Offer about 30–50% of the initial price. For example, a T-shirt priced at 100 CNY, you can offer 50 CNY and gradually raise to 70 CNY.
💡 Tip: When bargaining, smile and stay cheerful, don't be tense. Sellers are usually more agreeable if you're polite.
The Number 4 and Taboo Colors
The number 4 (sì) sounds like "death" (sǐ), so avoid it in gifts or room numbers. The number 8 (bā) is lucky because it sounds like "prosper" (fā). Red symbolizes luck, while white and black are used at funerals.
Things to Avoid When Visiting
Temples and Historical Sites
- Photography: Many places don't allow photos inside, especially Buddha statues and sacred areas. Watch for signs or ask staff.
- Dress: Dress modestly, covering shoulders and knees. At some temples, you must remove shoes before entering.
- Don't point at Buddha statues – it's disrespectful. Instead, press your palms together and bow slightly.
⚠️ Note: When visiting the Forbidden City or the Great Wall, buy tickets online at least a week in advance because of huge crowds. I once queued for 2 hours because I didn't know this.
Final Thoughts
Chinese culture has many fascinating aspects if you know how to blend in. With just a little sensitivity, you'll find the locals very hospitable and willing to help. And don't forget, to freely use Google Maps or check in on Facebook, buy a China eSIM from SimNha before your trip – I've used it and found it extremely convenient, no worries about being blocked.